You are the writer of your own story, and the leading lady or leading man in your own life.  Don't be the understudy!  Do you choose to star in nightmare and terror roles or do you choose to star in happily ever after roles? Think about it for a minute.   Even when things are happening to us, we can still choose the role we will play - faithful, shero, hero, role model, determined, never gives up, villain, scapegoat, just gets by, lazy. So it time for your own Academy of Awards for 2015. Which Oscar will you bring home?